Families, Parents & Carers

Supporting Young Autistic People in Education and at Home

Discover neurodiversity-affirming resources to help you develop a better understanding of Autism to support the well-being of young Autistic people in educational settings and the family home.

Workshops

I offer bespoke workshops and webinars tailored to individual organisations to meet the needs of neurodivergent families. My work focuses on developing an understanding of:

  • Neuro-affirming Autistic identity
  • Low-demand parenting and teaching strategies
  • Methods to support young people who may be experiencing barriers to education
  • Understanding burnout and exploring ways forward
  • Embracing the theory of Monotropism

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Re-Storying Autism

A Framework For Families, Parents, And Carers: Reimagining Support For Autistic People

By David Gray-Hammond & Helen Edgar

Book cover titled “Re-Storying Autism.” The background is a muted blue. At the top, the title “Re-Storying Autism” appears in bold yellow and blue outlined lettering. In the centre is a large rainbow infinity symbol in blended shades of red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple. Below the symbol, the subtitle reads: “A Framework For Families, Parents, And Carers: Reimagining Support For Autistic People.” At the bottom, the authors’ names are listed: David Gray-Hammond and Helen Edgar.

Autism has been explained to us for generations.
Diagnosed, interpreted, measured, corrected, managed.

This course and workbook does something different.

Re-Storying Autism is a number one Amazon Best Seller 2026 , it is an invitation to step out of inherited stories about what autism is and begin shaping your own; one rooted in lived experience, relational safety, and Autistic ways of knowing.

Not a cure.
Not a coping manual.
Not a guide to being more palatable.

This is about meaning, agency, autonomy, and reconnection.

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This isn’t another autism workbook

Most autism resources fall into one of two traps:

They either reduce Autistic life to deficits and strategies,
or they celebrate difference while skirting around burnout, trauma, shame, addiction, and loss.

Re-Storying Autism offers something radically different.

It assumes:

  • Your loved ones have survived environments that weren’t built for them
  • They’re not broken; but they may be carrying the impact of harm
  • Identity is not fixed; it’s shaped over time, in relationship with the world

This course doesn’t ask “How do I function better?”
It asks “What story have I been living inside, and how was it shaped?”

No checklists, no assessments, just a collaborative way of learning about neurodiversity and supporting Autistic people.

Check Out The Workbook & Video Course

Promotional graphic advertising the “Re-Storying Autism” on-demand video course and workbook. The design features a large headline reading “Re-Storying Autism,” with text stating it is a #1 Amazon Best Seller and now available as Kindle, paperback, and PDF. On the right is a 3D image of the book with a blue cover, a rainbow infinity symbol, and the subtitle describing it as a framework for families, parents, and carers, authored by David Gray-Hammond and Helen Edgar. On the left is a recommendation quote attributed to Kelly Mahler, praising the resource for helping create environments where Autistic people can live with greater safety, dignity, and self-trust, alongside a five-star rating. Branding for NeuroHub Community Ltd appears at the top, and a call-to-action button at the bottom directs viewers to a website link to get a copy.



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Endorsements For The Workbook

Image 1 (Blue background – Kelly Mahler review):
A blue graphic titled “Book Review” showing the cover of Re-Storying Autism with a rainbow infinity symbol. Beside it is a positive review by Kelly Mahler praising the book’s focus on sensory experience, interoception, burnout, identity, and belonging. Five stars and a small portrait of Kelly Mahler appear below.
Image 2 (Yellow background – Ryan Boren review):
A yellow graphic titled “Book Review” showing the cover of Re-Storying Autism with a rainbow infinity symbol. Beside it is a five-star review by Ryan Boren of Stimpunks highlighting the book’s move beyond deficit-based narratives and its emphasis on authenticity and neurodiversity. A small portrait of Ryan Boren appears
Image 3 (Red background – Emma Welsby review):
A red graphic titled “Book Review” showing the cover of Re-Storying Autism with a rainbow infinity symbol. Beside it is a five-star review by Emma Welsby of Divergent Minds, recommending the book as a compassionate, neurodiversity-affirming resource for families and practitioners. A small portrait of Emma Welsby appears below.

Built on NeuroHub Community Ltd’s six-point framework

This work is grounded in NeuroHub Community Ltd’s six-point framework for supporting Autistic people; a model developed through years of community work, research, education, and lived experience.

The framework understands Autistic wellbeing as something that emerges when we attend to:

  • How Autistic experience is understood and framed
  • The sensory and emotional landscape of the bodymind
  • Identity, masking, and the cost of survival
  • Environment, predictability, and relational safety
  • Power, systems, and institutional harm
  • Connection, meaning, and Autistic ways of becoming

Rather than isolating “the individual” as the problem, this framework recognises that distress is often created between people, environments, and systems.

Re-Storying Autism uses this framework not as a rigid structure, but as a steady ground; one that keeps reflection safe, contextual, and humane.

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What “re-storying” actually means

Re-storying is not positive thinking.
It’s not reframing trauma to make it easier to endure.

It’s a grounded, reflective process of:

  • Making sense of how a nervous system learned to survive
  • Understanding how environments shape distress
  • Separating identity from harm and adaptation
  • Allowing identity to be fluid, contextual, and alive

When the story changes, behaviour often follows; but the aim is not to change observable behaviour, it’s to rewrite the story of autism.that has been passed down to you.


What’s included

The Workbook (nearly 400 pages)

This is not a journal full of prompts and platitudes.
It’s a substantial, structured companion designed for anyone wanting to better support Autistic people aged 8 years or older.

Inside, you’ll explore:

  • Autistic identity beyond diagnostic labels and behaviour lists
  • Masking, burnout, and the long-term cost of adaptation
  • Why “resilience” narratives often deepen harm
  • How systems, power, and services shape lived experience
  • Ways of reconnecting with self without forcing coherence or certainty

You don’t have to move linearly. You can drop in and out, pause, return, skip, and linger.

This work respects Autistic pacing and autonomy.

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 The On-Demand Video Course (7 modules)

The video course brings the workbook to life through seven carefully structured modules.

Rather than lectures or instruction, the videos offer:

  • Clear, accessible explanations of complex ideas
  • Reflection without pressure to disclose, perform, or “progress”
  • A sense of being accompanied, not managed

Watch at your own pace.
Pause. Rewatch. Walk away and return.

No deadlines. No targets. No productivity theatre.

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Who this is for

This is for those who want to better understand and support Autistic people and help them after:

  • Feeling disconnected from themselves after years of coping
  • Being exhausted by being told to manage or optimise themselves
  • Wanting language for their experience that isn’t medicalised or moralised
  • Carrying complex histories involving trauma, addiction, or marginalisation
  • Knowing that identity continues to unfold across a lifetime
  • Wanting space to reflect without being fixed

You don’t need to be confident, healed, or stable.
You only need curiosity and enough safety to reflect.


Who this is not for

This isn’t for:

  • Parents seeking to change their child
  • Professionals looking for a quick autism explainer
  • Behavioural compliance or “life skills” training
  • Anyone invested in cure narratives

This work starts from the assumption of Autistic dignity.


Why this exists

Across years of community work, consultancy, research, and lived experience, one pattern kept repeating:

Autistic people weren’t failing because they lacked skills.
They were suffering because the stories about them erased context, power, and humanity.

Re-Storying Autism exists to offer a different starting point; one that honours complexity, contradiction, and growth without demanding assimilation.


How to access it

  • Workbook: Paperback and Kindle
  • Video course: On-demand, lifetime access

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The full video course is available for £100.

And if you’re a paid NeuroHub member, the video course is included at no extra cost.




An invitation

You don’t have to re-story an entire life.
You don’t have to reach clarity or closure.

Sometimes the most meaningful shift is letting a story be told differently.

Re-Storying Autism offers space, language, and grounding for that work; held within a framework designed with Autistic people, not imposed upon them.

The story is still unfolding.

Explore Re-Storying Autism


Promotional graphic advertising the “Re-Storying Autism” on-demand video course and workbook. The design features a large headline reading “Re-Storying Autism,” with text stating it is a #1 Amazon Best Seller and now available as Kindle, paperback, and PDF. On the right is a 3D image of the book with a blue cover, a rainbow infinity symbol, and the subtitle describing it as a framework for families, parents, and carers, authored by David Gray-Hammond and Helen Edgar. On the left is a recommendation quote attributed to Kelly Mahler, praising the resource for helping create environments where Autistic people can live with greater safety, dignity, and self-trust, alongside a five-star rating. Branding for NeuroHub Community Ltd appears at the top, and a call-to-action button at the bottom directs viewers to a website link to get a copy.

https://neurohubcommunity.org/neurohub/



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